I Need a Cure

[Poncho]

Wil found the porn you were looking at a few nights ago, found it in the recycling bin. He says it wasnt his, and luke hasnt been on the computer in 3 weeks so it had to have been you. Then..... to prove it he said it was made at 2:34 or 3:46 or some shit. the only time your home from work. I just found it kind of ironic.

[Sc0rPi0n]

You are right Ice, it is psychological. Maybe you have gotten too comftorable with her and she isn't getting turned on. It is simple, find a way to turn her on again, women want sex just as much as us guys, the problem is that it doesn't just occur for them. If she isn't in the mood, get her in the mood. If that isn't the case, the only thing I can think of is that maybe she is pregnant?

[KhaOZ]

Heh, honestly, it's probably not as bad as you're making it out to be. You probably want it 3 times a day, and she only wants it 2 times. As for women not being as horney as men, i've been with women who wanted much more than I have, and even had to fake orgazms just to get them to leave me alone sometimes(this is not bullshit, I am very seirous).

The thing is, you can't classify it by men or women, that's too general, people are different.

What I would say to try, is making it special each and every time. Get quickies out of your head. Think that if you're going to do it, you're going the whole 9 yards. Dinner, compliments, forplay, then sex. If you really want to wig her out though, do everything I just said, but stop at the forplay and just cuddle for the night. The way you do that is, you get yourself worked up with her to the point that it'd take you 30 seconds pretty much to jerk off, go in the bathroom and handle it real fast, go back out and claim you just want to be with her. You'll be all relaxed cause you just took care of yourself in the bathroom, so you'll easily just cuddle.

Now she'll take this quite well, and it can only do good for your relationship. Sometimes people just want to feel like they are wanted as a person, and not as a vagina or a dick.

Just try that. Think that every time you're going to get it on, it's going to be for the whole 9. This will help to train yourself to stop thinking you could bend her over that counter top she's making that sandwich on, and doggy style it and be done in time for some AA matches, lol.

Seriously though, just slowing shit down and taking it to a different level that includes sex.

[IceBlade]

Thx for the serious replies, guys. I've got some ideas of what I can do now.

And Nick that was left over porn from July when my brothers and parents were at my cottage. I deleted it last week.